“Tigers Die and Leave Their Skins; People Die
and Leave Their Names.” – Author Unknown
Dale Carnegie refers to names as
being, “the sweetest and most important sound in any language,” and I could not
agree more. Names are vastly important. They are who we are, holding dreams that
our parents laid out for us and they are the biggest gifts we could have
received from them outside of the gift of life. Names in a matter of speaking
are the roots of us, as individuals, as groups. They are our first identifier
and our main next to our appearances.
Names are important in every
single culture although the importance may be for different reasons. As such
names should be treated with respect.
“When I started as an actor? No, and I'll tell you why. I had
already gone through that. My family is from Nigeria, and my full name is
Uzoamaka, which means "The road is good." Quick lesson: My tribe is
Igbo, and you name your kid something that tells your history and hopefully
predicts your future. So anyway, in grade school, because my last name started
with an A, I was the first in roll call, and nobody ever knew how to pronounce
it. So I went home and asked my mother if I could be called Zoe. I remember she
was cooking, and in her Nigerian accent she said, "Why?" I said,
"Nobody can pronounce it." Without missing a beat, she said, "If
they can learn to say Tchaikovsky and Michelangelo and Dostoyevsky, they can
learn to say Uzoamaka.” – Uzo Aduba
In the story, Chike’s School Days
the main character receives three names, John, Chike, and Obiajulu. All of
these names must have very important meanings to Chike’s family but it is the
last one Obiajulu that is the most impactful. Meaning, “the mind is at last at
rest,” this name not only connects the main character to his native roots, but
it holds the feeling of doneness, of completion for the family. It is the rest
of the story that gives further context into Chike’s dual existence, to his
having one foot equally in the door of Europe as well as the door of his
homeland, Africa but it is in that first paragraph that we as an audience truly
witness the groundwork being laid for the story.
In the short story, “Deep River”
the importance of a name is also evident as the entire group chooses to go by
the name of their Chief, the person of highest importance in their tribe. For
as long as they can remember the people of the tribe have been Monemapee’s
people until an incident involving the newest ruler splits the tribe in half.
This fallout has a very big impact on the tribe as it leads to their identity
being changed at the end of the story, not only in their thoughts and opinions
but in their identity and name as well.
The impact that this change has
on the people is very thought provoking and relatable. It makes you wonder what
you might have done in the shoes of one of the tribe members. Would you have
chosen to go with one leader or the other? Would you have been willing to
change your identity for the sake of your people? Or would you have rather made
a path for yourself?
The poet Leopold Sedar Senghor
knows what it means to be part of a community with one foot in one door and one
in another. It is in his poems, To New York, and Prayer to the Masks that we
truly get a glimpse of what this dual identity means. In To New York Senghor
provides us a love letter to his hometown, the city he has come to love despite
its flaws. Prayer to the Masks provides us a glimpse of his dual life, of his
roots in African and Europe, with Europe being tied at the navel.

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